Love & Relationships

Questions about how you give and receive love, handle conflict and build trust. Many work for partners; plenty work for anyone curious about love.

Questions: 40
Light: 12
Medium: 16
Deep: 12

A taste of the deck

Light
Which couple you know makes love look good, and why?
Medium
How do you know you feel loved?
Deep
What does trust mean to you, and can it be rebuilt once it breaks?

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Light

Which couple you know makes love look good, and why?
What's the most thoughtful small gift you've ever given or received?
What does love look like on a lazy Sunday?
Big celebrations or quiet traditions: which do you prefer for special occasions?
What's a pet name you secretly love or absolutely can't stand?
What's the best relationship advice you've ever heard?
Which romantic movie gets love completely wrong?
What's your favourite memory of us so far?
What everyday moment feels like love to you?
What song belongs on a playlist about us?
How do you like to be looked after when you're ill?
Which chore would you happily do forever if it meant never doing another one?

Medium

How do you know you feel loved?
What do you need more of in a relationship?
How did the relationships you grew up around shape your idea of love?
What does a fair argument look like to you?
How much time alone do you need to feel like yourself?
What's a boundary you've learned to set?
What's one thing I do that makes you feel appreciated?
What's a relationship habit you're glad you dropped?
How do you prefer to make up after a disagreement?
What's something small I could do this week that would mean a lot to you?
How do you feel about sharing passwords, phones and locations?
What feels like a healthy amount of time together?
What's one value you'd never compromise on in a partner?
What does loyalty mean to you, beyond the obvious?
What's something you'd like us to get better at together?
How do you show love to the people in your life who aren't partners?

Deep

What does trust mean to you, and can it be rebuilt once it breaks?
What's something from a past relationship you're still unlearning?
What scares you about being in love?
When do you feel most connected to me?
What's something you've never felt brave enough to ask me?
What does commitment mean in practice, day to day?
How would you like to be supported in a way you haven't asked for yet?
How do you want us to handle it when one of us changes?
What's the difference between being loved and feeling loved?
Describe a moment you felt truly seen by someone.
In your experience, what does a relationship need to last?
What's something about love you've only learned the hard way?

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